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48 Hours in Vegas: An Insane Side Quest

48 Hours in Vegas: An Insane Side Quest

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48-hour side quest to Vegas. Absolutely insane.

When one of your favorite EDM artists announces a show at the Sphere, you grab a bestie and go.

No overthinking.
Just “f*ck it, book it.”

Give the girls a glass of wine and two hours of planning and suddenly you have flights, a hotel, and a weekend in Vegas.

Viva Las Vegas.

I’m in a phase of life where I’m all about experiences, and seeing Illenium at the Sphere might honestly be a top five lifetime experience for me. It was INSANE (literally the only word we used all weekend).

This was a quick 48-hour trip. No PTO needed.

Barely any sleep.
Voices gone.
New friends made.
A million steps walked.
Overstimulated by casino machines.

Vegas honestly feels like an alternate universe.

Night One: 

We flew into Las Vegas and checked into our hotel, The Luxor.

After a quick dinner at a Mexican spot inside the hotel, we got dressed and headed down to the hotel bar and bellied up at one of the hotel bars.

We befriended the bartender and the people sitting nearby and ended up meeting Adam and his friend, one of whom would later become our Sphere show buddy for the next night.

From there we headed to LIV Nightclub to see John Summit.

When we arrived, the floor was suddenly VIP-only (classic Vegas), so we squeezed into a decent rail spot and made a few random friends along the way.

Next thing we know?

Security escorts us into bottle service… and of course we weren’t going to say no. 

We ended up staying out until around 4 AM dancing and singing the night away.

Day Two: 

Four hours of sleep later… we were back out.

Vegas is the type of place where you just wander and see what happens, so we spent the day walking the Strip, exploring shops, grabbing food, and trying not to melt in sensory overload.

Eventually we reunited with our new friends Adam and Katelyn at the Venetian for drinks.

And not just any drinks.

Custom Illenium espresso martinis.

The perfect pregame before the main event.

The Sphere: Illenium & Wooli

Nothing could have prepared me for this show.

The Sphere itself is insane, but seeing Illenium (and Wooli) there was on another level entirely.

We originally had tickets in Section 110, Row 30, which honestly weren’t great seats for the visuals (definitely look up seat reviews before buying).

But we noticed two better seats in Section 100, Row 20 that hadn’t sold… and somehow managed to relocate ourselves.

(Do not recommend risking it like that. Definitely research seats beforehand.)

But wow.

Absolutely worth it.

Wooli opened (so amazing even he got emotional), and then Illenium came on and the entire place exploded. 

The visuals.
The lasers.
The sound.

Fire.
Smoke.
Confetti.

Live instrumentals and singers (insane for an EDM show).

Graphics wrapping around the entire Sphere, literally taking us through stories and to other dimensions. 

It honestly felt like being inside the show.

Our jaws were basically wide open the entire time, except when we were singing along (half my videos are ruined due to my singing). 

Even if you’re not into EDM, the Sphere experience alone is something I think anyone would find incredible.

It completely changed how I’ll view shows going forward. No rave will ever top this. 

Day Three: 

After the pure amazement of the night before, it was time to pack up and check out.

Morning workout and a walk for me.
Starbucks.
Packing up and checking out.

We grabbed breakfast at a random little hole-in-the-wall place before heading to the pool for the afternoon.

Since our flight wasn’t until later, we booked a ResortPass day pass at the Fontainebleau pool for around $30.

Honestly one of the best travel hacks.

You can store your bags there and relax by a nice pool instead of killing time at the airport.

Highly recommend if you have a late flight.

Vegas Notes & Travel Tips:

A few things we learned along the way:

  • Taxis are often cheaper and faster than Uber or Lyft.
  • Vegas resorts are confusing. You will get lost. Multiple times. Plan extra time.
  • Escalators everywhere (even outdoor sidewalks), long hallways, and ride shares take forever to arrive — add extra time to everything.
  • LIV tip: If you’re planning to go, consider using a promoter instead of buying tickets directly. The floor can quickly become VIP-only.
  • Sphere seating matters a lot. Our original seats (Section 110 Row 32) were not great for viewing the full visuals. If you go, spend the extra money for a better section in the 100s or 200s with clear views.
  • The Luxor review: Pretty run down and the elevators take forever. Also everything is slanted because it’s a pyramid, including the elevators and walls. If you’re prone to motion sickness… maybe skip it. The pool was also closed while we were there.
  • ResortPass: Perfect for killing time before flights and checking out other hotels.
  • Illenium designed his 2026 album Odyssey around his Las Vegas Sphere residency and it’s absolutely amazing. The album is 10x better after the show, I’m not sure how I’ll ever recover to be honest.

Final Thoughts:

Outside of the Sphere (or maybe John Summit)… I honestly never need to go to Vegas again.

But for the Sphere? I would absolutely come back.

Seeing Wooli and Illenium there was the most insane show I’ve ever experienced. I still barely even have any words. 

And yes, “insane” was definitely the most used word of the trip.

But more than anything, this weekend reminded me how lucky I am.

To be a single girl in her mid-twenties able to do things like this.

To have friends to say “yes” with.


To meet strangers who become part of the story.


To laugh until your voice is gone.

The inside jokes.


The random adventures.


The memories.

This life I get to live still blows my mind sometimes.

I’ll never get over this quick little 48-hour side quest to Vegas.

And honestly?

I’m probably not going to stop talking about it anytime soon.

2025 Reflection & Insights

2025 Reflection & Insights

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Every year, as long as I can remember, I choose a word to guide me.

Not a resolution. Not a rigid goal. Just a word. Something to return to when life feels loud, fast, or overwhelming.

For 2025, my word was Soften.
Ease. Grace. Intentionality.

And I’m happy to report back: I did, in fact, soften.

I loosened my grip. I planned less. I said yes more freely and no when I needed to. I gave myself more grace than ever before. I stopped forcing timelines and started trusting flow. Somewhere along the way, I became a little more Type B… and a lot more at peace.

This year wasn’t about doing more or proving anything. It was about allowing life to meet me where I was. About letting moments unfold instead of managing every detail. And somehow, even with less planning, less pressure, and fewer expectations, I still had one of the most full, meaningful years.

As I look back on 2025, I see a year shaped by softness through lessons learned, moments that shifted me, and experiences that weren’t on my bingo card but ended up changing me anyway.

This reflection is my attempt to capture that: the lessons, the surprises, and the quiet becoming that happened when I chose ease over control.

25 lessons from 2025:

  1. Girls nights are medicine.
    Never underestimate the healing power of laughter and connection with the girls.
  2. Tend to your own garden.
    Everyone is in a different season of life. Don’t let comparison distract you from your growth.
  3. Let them. Let me.
    Release what you can’t control and refocus on your own happiness.
  4. Life gives you what you need, not always what you want.
    You receive what you need when you’re ready, even if it doesn’t look how you expected or hoped.
  5. Your emotions are information.
    When you slow down and listen, your body will tell you when something is off or deeply right.
  6. Love isn’t only romantic.
    It’s friendship, self-trust, community, kindness, and the small moments that make life feel full.
  7. Stay open, you never know who you’ll meet.
    Some of the most meaningful connections arrive unexpectedly.
  8. Rest is necessary.
    Slowing down is essential for clarity, regulation, and longevity. Rest before the burnout, not after.
  9. New experiences create new perspectives.
    Say yes to new places, new things, and spontaneous adventures.
  10. Choose experiences over things.
    Music, travel, and shared moments outlast anything you can buy.
  11. Who you surround yourself with matters.
    Spend time with expanders, supporters, and people who believe in your growth.
  12. It’s never too late to pivot.
    You can change careers, dreams, paths, or versions of yourself at any time.
  13. At the end of the day, you always have yourself.
    Everything else is secondary to your relationship with you. Show up for yourself.
  14. You are not responsible for others’ happiness.
    You don’t have to fix, carry, or absorb what isn’t yours. Boundaries matter.
  15. Someone is always watching.
    Keep showing up and staying real, it matters more than you know.
  16. Balance is something you create, not something you find.
    It takes intention, boundaries, and regular recalibration.
  17. Slow down before life forces you to.
    Notice the signs early and listen before you’re forced to pause.
  18. What’s falling apart is often making space.
    Endings clear room for what’s meant to stay and make room for what hasn’t arrived yet.
  19. Sometimes all you need is a hug.
    Not advice. Not fixing. Just presence and being held as you are.
  20. Work friends matter.
    They make the everyday lighter, more human, and more fun.
  21. Give yourself grace when starting something new.
    Progress may feel slow, but growth is happening beneath the surface.
  22. Quality over quantity, always.
    This applies to friendships, food, clothes, workouts, experiences, and commitments.
  23. Lead with grace.
    Be the bigger person, leave people better than you found them, and remember you never know what someone is carrying.
  24. You can reinvent yourself as often as you need.
    You’re not stuck. Try, evolve, release, repeat.
  25. Relationships are built one conversation at a time. Mentorship, networking, and friendship all begin the same way: showing up as yourself, asking questions, and being genuinely interested in others.

Things that were not on bingo card:

  1. A new job opportunity that practically fell in my lap (with the help of networking)
  2. Hosting + co-hosting multiple community events (more of this in 2026!)
  3. Becoming a rave girl (I went to 10+… so fun!)
  4. Speaking on two panels (and actually enjoying it)
  5. Landing social media clients outside of my 9–5
  6. Getting a new car (because the last one got totaled)
  7. Friendship shifts + unexpected new friends
  8. Dog sitting 14 dogs (it’s my side personality now)
  9. Making a group of friends at my apartment (college roommate vibes)
  10. Work friends becoming real-life friends
  11. Becoming known for journal prompts + self-reflection
  12. Hitting 1,000+ followers on TikTok + Instagram
  13. Trips to Costa Rica, San Diego, Wisconsin Dells, Eau Claire, the UP, London & Oxford
  14. Being a podcast guest on Deep Talk
  15. A 26th birthday surprise (I feel so loved)
  16. Joining a board as an ambassador helping connect professionals across the Twin Cities
  17. Tapping into tools like Human Design, astrology, and intuitive tarot to better understand myself, my gifts, and how I’m meant to move through the world
  18. One very educational situationship (a good reminder that my heart still works!)

Top 10 Moments That Changed Me:

  1. Two Friends Concert – what unexpectedly sparked my love for raves, joy, music, movement, and being fully in the moment.
  2. Cost Rica Retreat – A reset for my nervous system. Space to slow down, reconnect with myself, and remember what it feels like to be grounded and present.
  3. Co-Facilitating a Circle – The first time I led journaling prompts in a group setting. A new gift unlocked. Holding space and guiding reflection felt natural and right.
  4. Social Media for The Dot – Reawakening a creative outlet I didn’t realize how much I missed. This brought me back to storytelling, creativity, and using my voice again.
  5. Situationship – A reminder that my heart is open and capable of love again after a long-term relationship, even when it’s messy, confusing, and unfinished.
  6. Getting My Car Totaled – A true breaking point after already feeling like I had crashed out. A wake-up call about slowing down, rebuilding stability, and the importance of having a safety net.
  7. Bubbles & Bouquets Party – A true breaking point after already feeling like I had crashed out. A wake-up call about slowing down, rebuilding stability, and the importance of having a safety net.
  8. Solo Concert – Learning I can do things alone and still have an amazing time. Quietly empowering and confidence-building.
  9. Starting a New Job – Trusting myself enough to admit my old but familiar role was draining instead of energizing. Networking, putting myself out there, and watching that effort turn into something new.
  10. Outgrowing Friendships – Accepting that not every friendship is meant to come with me into every season. Learning that making new friends in adulthood takes courage, sending the DM, saying yes, and showing up, and trusting that the right people will meet me there.

When I chose Soften as my word, I didn’t know exactly what it would ask of me. I just knew I needed more grace, more room to breathe, to feel, to change my mind.

Looking back now, I see how that softness showed up everywhere. In how I moved through relationships. In how I let go of expectations. In how I allowed life to surprise me. This year reminded me that you don’t have to grip life tightly to live it fully.

As I carry these lessons forward, I’m taking the ease, the trust, and the intentionality with me along with the reminders that some of the best moments come when you stop trying to force them.

If you’re reflecting on your own year, I hope you ask yourself not just what you did but how you moved through it. Where did you soften? Where could you next year?

Here’s to the years that shape us in ways we only understand in hindsight and to stepping forward with a little more grace, clarity, and trust than before. 🤎

Closing the Chapter on My First Job Post-College: Reflections on My Time at Turnberry

Closing the Chapter on My First Job Post-College: Reflections on My Time at Turnberry

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In September 2021, I was a college senior at CSB/SJU, nervous but excited to accept my first full-time job with ThreeBridge Solutions, set to begin after graduation in June 2022. Somewhere between then and my first day, the company rebranded to Turnberry Solutions—which would become the company I’d call home for the next three years.

Now, a little over three years later, I’m closing this chapter—and what a chapter it has been.

From Bootcamp to Business Impact

I joined Turnberry Crew, an innovative talent program focused on developing high-performing junior consultants in the early years of their consulting careers. I didn’t fully grasp what IT consulting meant during our onboarding bootcamp—and, thankfully, neither did the girl next to me (who quickly became a great friend). We figured it out as we went, supported by a strong foundation of resources, encouragement, and a shared drive to grow.

What I Appreciated About Crew

Crew gave me room to explore and grow. I appreciated:

  • Training and development that made consulting feel less intimidating
  • The knowledge that roles were temporary, and change was part of the experience
  • Unlimited PTO (yes, I took advantage of it!)
  • Supportive managers and engaged client directors
  • Crew Happy Hours, Coffee Roulettes, and First Fridays that built connection beyond the work
  • The opportunity to contribute at big corporations, while still feeling part of a small, tight-knit crew

What Was Hard About Crew

Not everything came easy, and consulting stretched me in ways I didn’t expect. I had to navigate:

  • The uncertainty of “what’s next” between projects (thankfully, I never had a gap)
  • Frequent client on- and offboarding
  • Balancing two sets of expectations—from the client and from Turnberry
  • Utilization targets and the stress they can bring
  • Interviewing for new roles once contract was coming to an end
  • Learning how to build credibility quickly, only to start over again somewhere new

And still, every challenge brought growth.

My Client Journey

Over three years, I had the opportunity to work on three client projects:

Wells Fargo

At Wells Fargo, I crafted and distributed a biweekly newsletter to over 3,000 people—my first real taste of internal communications at scale. What started as writing evolved into so much more:

  • Planning and executing a virtual conference with over 4,000 attendees
  • Launching communications as a shared service across teams
  • Supporting video production, SharePoint migration, and process documentation
  • Becoming the calm presence my team could rely on—someone they were “happy to have at Wells”

Allianz Technology

At Allianz, I supported the Third-Party Risk Management (TPRM) function, completing over 2,000 outsourcing assessments. This project taught me the power of clear communication, stakeholder alignment, and leading with influence, even when business owners weren’t eager to comply.
Some highlights:

  • Closed three major audit findings with a quick turnaround time
  • Helped segment over 250 vendor engagements
  • Gained CEO approval on a business case for tool adoption and co-led implementation
  • Took the lead on tracking and reporting for critical initiatives

GeoBlue

Most recently, I joined GeoBlue to support their marketing operations during a rebrand. I managed tactical projects, coordinated with vendors, optimized automation tools, and helped streamline campaign workflows. This role gave me a closer look at marketing tech and systems thinking—two areas I now want to continue growing in.

Beyond the Projects: What Made the Difference

Some of my most meaningful memories and growth moments came from what happened outside the day-to-day tasks:

  • Joining the Well & Able Executive Board as Communications & Marketing Chair—and later as Co-Champion—promoting wellness and fostering connection across Turnberry
  • Participating in over 15 training sessions and enrolling in additional leadership development through the Crew Leadership Academy
  • Attending First Fridays, Crew Bootcamp, social hours, and building friendships that stretched across projects and cities
  • Being trusted by managers to take initiative, lead meetings, and bring clarity to chaos

What I Learned

I’ve learned:

  • To navigate ambiguity with grace—pun fully intended
  • That being detail-oriented and thoughtful is a superpower
  • How to communicate effectively with stakeholders at all levels
  • That consulting is about people first—relationships, trust, and responsiveness
  • To trust myself, speak up, and stretch outside my comfort zone

The People Who Shaped This Chapter

To the people who made this experience unforgettable—thank you. 

It really is about who you work with. The teammates who become friends, the managers who mentor you, the clients who trust you, the peers who cheer you on—all of it makes a difference. This chapter was richer, more meaningful, and more enjoyable because of the people I had the chance to work alongside.

What I’m Taking With Me

Personally:

  • Confidence in who I am and how I work
  • A clearer sense of what I want in my career (and what I don’t)
  • Lifelong friendships and a deeper connection to the professional world

Professionally:

  • Real-world experience managing projects, building communication strategies, and supporting complex organizational change
  • A portfolio of work experience and lasting results I’m proud of
  • Skills that will carry me into whatever’s next—project coordination, stakeholder management, cross-functional collaboration, and more

Looking Ahead

As I close this chapter, I leave with gratitude, growth, and excitement for what’s next. This role held me through so much life—many trips, moves, growth, hard days, and big wins. It was never perfect, but it was mine—and it shaped me.

To anyone stepping into their first post-grad job: it doesn’t have to be your dream job to be meaningful. Every meeting, every project, every new challenge—there’s something in it for you. If you’re lucky, you’ll leave knowing more about yourself, your values, and your direction.

Here’s to the next chapter.

With gratitude,

Grace

Closing the Doors on the Job That Held Me Through So Much Life

Closing the Doors on the Job That Held Me Through So Much Life

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A little over two years ago, I walked through the doors at Allianz thinking I was just signing on to help with a three-month data cleanup project. I had no idea I was stepping into two of the most transformative years of my life.

What started as a short-term contract quickly turned into so much more. More learning, more growth, more life than I ever expected to live while working on a project in Third Party Risk Management.

In my two years here, I:

  • Worked under three different managers, each with their own leadership style and lessons
  • Supported legal, risk, and compliance initiatives across the business
  • Completed over 2,000 third-party risk management assessments with internal stakeholders
  • On- and off-boarded multiple colleagues
  • Navigated mostly remote work while still building real relationships
  • Took on new responsibilities, earned two raises, and was promoted once
  • Learned to work with all kinds of personalities — and grew stronger because of it

But what made this experience unforgettable wasn’t just the work. It was everything that happened outside of it, too.

The Life I Lived While Working This Job

These past two years held some of my biggest personal milestones and growing pains. While working full-time, I also:

  • Moved out of my parents’ house
  • Got my first apartment with a partner
  • Went through a life-changing breakup
  • Moved into my own place — this time, solo
  • Took on multiple leadership roles outside of work
  • Spoke on three professional panels
  • Went on ten trips
  • Started dog sitting (seriously, so many dogs)
  • Made so many new friends — both through work and beyond
  • Rediscovered my love for yoga
  • Supported my sister as she graduated from high school
  • Cried and smiled more times than I can count
  • Went to ten concerts
  • Dated… a lot
  • Showed up for early mornings, late nights, and everything in between

These walls — virtual and physical — held me through it all. This role became a container for my growth, in ways that went far beyond my job description.

The People Who Made It What It Was

I’ll never forget the emergency “calls” and “meetings” that doubled as therapy sessions, the weekly help desk calls that became running jokes, or the long happy hours that turned colleagues into friends.

To the Turnberry–Allianz crew: You turned work into community. Thank you for showing up for each other the way we did.

To my manager: Thank you for being the most supportive boss I’ve ever had. Your example of grace, strength, and leadership is one I’ll carry with me. I truly aspire to be like you.

To the ever-growing circle of work friends: You’re more than coworkers. You’re lifelong people. I’m so glad our paths crossed here.

And to Allianz: Thank you for giving me space to grow — professionally, emotionally, and personally.

A Full-Circle Moment

I’ll always remember interviewing for this job while I was up north at the cabin. Thank gawd I packed a collared linen shirt, found a curling iron, and threw on some makeup… because it led me here.

Thank You to the Past Two Years

Thank you for:

  • The best group of work friends I’ve had to date
  • Mentorship opportunities that shaped me
  • Countless new connections
  • A chance to learn, lead, and fail safely
  • Teaching me how to navigate challenging conversations and personalities
  • Encouraging me to step up — and step out
  • Letting me be a human, not just a headcount

So much life has happened in the past two years. I’m beyond grateful to my client and employer for being part of the backdrop of that chapter.

Now, it’s time for what’s next and I can’t wait! ❤

Life as a Lab: How Embracing Experiments Can Help You Grow

Life as a Lab: How Embracing Experiments Can Help You Grow

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Have you ever faced a setback that left you feeling stuck or discouraged? Maybe it was a failed relationship, a career move that didn’t pan out, or a health goal that didn’t quite stick. What if, instead of labeling it a failure, you viewed it as an experiment? By shifting your mindset, you can turn life’s challenges into opportunities for learning and growth. Welcome to the concept of life experiments, where every experience becomes data for discovering your best self.

What Are Life Experiments?

Life experiments are intentional trials where you test new ideas, paths, or habits to see what works for you. The beauty of this approach is that the goal isn’t perfection or success. Instead, it’s about gathering information, exploring options, and learning more about yourself along the way.

For example, after a recent breakup, you might decide to focus on being single and enjoying your own company. This can become an experiment in self-discovery—testing what brings you joy, fulfillment, and peace without relying on a partner.

Why Experimenting Is Better Than Striving for Perfection

When you treat life as a series of experiments, the pressure to “get it right” disappears. Here are some key benefits:

  • Low-Stakes Mindset: Experiments invite curiosity, not perfection. There’s no failure, only feedback.
  • Adaptability: If something doesn’t work, you can pivot without feeling defeated.
  • Self-Discovery: Each experiment reveals more about your preferences, boundaries, and potential.

For instance, I’ve learned this summer that leaving room for spontaneity often leads to the best memories. Whether it’s jumping into a lake with friends or spending a spontaneous night out, experimenting with “less planning, more fun” has taught me the value of letting go.

How to Design Your Own Life Experiments

Ready to start experimenting? Here’s a simple framework:

  1. Pick an Area: Identify where you feel curious or stuck. This could be your career, health, social life, or personal growth.
  2. Set a Hypothesis: What do you hope to learn or test? For example, “Will joining a new community group help me feel more connected?”
  3. Define Your Parameters: Decide how long you’ll try this experiment and what “data” you’ll collect (e.g., how you feel, what you learn).
  4. Reflect: After the experiment, ask what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to carry forward.

Examples of Life Experiments

To inspire you, here are some life experiments to consider:

  • Career: Shadow someone in a field you’re curious about or take on a freelance project to test a new path.
  • Health: Commit to a week of daily movement or try a new fitness class like yoga or pickleball.
  • Social Life: Host a gathering where you mix different friend groups or attend an event where you know no one.
  • Creativity: Write a poem each day for a month or enroll in a painting class to explore a hidden talent.
  • Personal Growth: Experiment with journaling, meditation, or practicing gratitude to see how it impacts your mindset.

What to Do When an Experiment “Fails”

Not every experiment will go as planned, and that’s okay. When something doesn’t work out, here’s how to reframe it:

  • Ask What You Learned: What did this experience teach you about yourself or the situation?
  • See the Bigger Picture: Sometimes, an experiment reveals what you don’t want, which is just as valuable.
  • Try Again: Adjust your approach and run a new experiment with what you’ve learned.

Bringing Experiments Into Everyday Life

Here are a few tips to make life experiments a habit:

  • Start small. Pick manageable experiments that don’t feel overwhelming.
  • Keep a journal. Document your experiments and the insights you gain.
  • Embrace curiosity. Detach from specific outcomes and focus on the process.

Life is a series of trials, and every experiment is an opportunity to learn, grow, and get closer to your true self. Whether you’re navigating relationships, exploring career changes, or simply trying to figure out what makes your soul shine, remember that it’s all part of the process.

What area of your life could use a little experimenting? Reflect on where you’re feeling stuck or curious, and design a small experiment to test the waters.

The World Needs Your Gifts: How to Step into Your Power

The World Needs Your Gifts: How to Step into Your Power

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The world is a richer, more vibrant place because of the unique gifts we each bring to it. Yet, many of us hesitate to step into our power, unsure of what we truly have to offer or held back by self-doubt. Recognizing and sharing your gifts is not just about fulfilling your purpose—it’s about making the world a better place. Let’s explore how to uncover your unique contributions, overcome self-doubt, and embrace the impact you’re meant to have.

Recognizing Your Unique Contributions

No one else in the world sees or experiences life exactly as you do. Your perspective, talents, and experiences shape the way you contribute to your community, your work, and the people around you. Recognizing your gifts starts with the belief that you have something valuable to offer—because you do.

Why it matters:

  • Your gifts create ripples: Even small acts of kindness or creativity can inspire and uplift others.
  • They bring fulfillment: Using your talents aligns you with your purpose, making life more meaningful.
  • The world benefits: Your unique contributions fill gaps and meet needs that only you can address.

Take a moment to think: What are the things you’re naturally drawn to? What comes easily to you but feels like magic to others? These are clues to your unique gifts.

Exercises to Uncover Your Gifts

If you’re unsure of your gifts, don’t worry—they’re already within you, waiting to be discovered. Here are a few exercises to help you uncover and recognize them:

  1. Journal Your Strengths:
    Set aside time to reflect on your natural talents and strengths. Answer these prompts:
    • What activities make you lose track of time?
    • What do people often compliment or ask for your help with?
    • What challenges have you overcome, and how has that shaped you?
  2. Seek Feedback from Friends and Family:
    Sometimes, others can see our gifts more clearly than we can. Reach out to people you trust and ask:
    • What do you think I’m really good at?
    • How have I positively impacted your life?
    • What’s a unique quality I bring to our relationship or community?
  3. Reflect on Your Joy:
    Pay attention to what brings you joy and energy. Often, your gifts align with the things that light you up. Make a list of the activities or moments where you felt most alive and fulfilled.

Overcoming Self-Doubt

Once you’ve identified your gifts, the next step is to overcome the fears and doubts that may hold you back from fully stepping into your power. It’s natural to feel uncertain or question your worth, but remember: self-doubt is just a voice, not the truth.

Strategies to silence self-doubt:

  1. Reframe Negative Thoughts:
    Instead of thinking, “I’m not good enough,” remind yourself: “I’m learning and growing every day.” Positive affirmations can rewire your mindset over time.
  2. Take Small Steps:
    You don’t need to leap into the deep end right away. Start small by sharing your gifts with people you trust or in low-stakes settings. Confidence grows with practice.
  3. Celebrate Progress:
    Acknowledge and celebrate even the smallest steps forward. Every time you use your gifts, you’re making an impact, no matter how big or small.
  4. Connect to Your “Why”:
    Remember why you’re sharing your gifts. Whether it’s to help others, express yourself, or make a difference, anchoring yourself in your purpose can help quiet doubts.

Embracing Your Purpose

Stepping fully into your gifts means allowing yourself to be seen and heard—to take up space in the world in a way that feels authentic and impactful. It’s about leaning into your unique talents and trusting that the world needs what you have to offer.

Here’s how to embrace your purpose:

  • Declare It: Write down who you are and what you’re here to do. Keep it somewhere visible as a daily reminder.
  • Take Aligned Action: Look for opportunities to use your gifts in ways that align with your values and passions.
  • Build a Supportive Community: Surround yourself with people who encourage and uplift you. They’ll remind you of your worth when self-doubt creeps in.
  • Give Yourself Permission: Let go of the need for perfection or external validation. Trust that your gifts are enough just as they are.

Final Thoughts

You are here for a reason, and the world is waiting for your light. Recognizing, sharing, and stepping into your gifts is a journey of courage and self-discovery, but it’s one that can transform both your life and the lives of others.

Take a deep breath and step fully into your power. The world needs you—just as you are, with all the unique gifts you bring.

What’s one step you’ll take today to embrace your gifts?

Navigating the Feeling of Directionlessness in Your Twenties

Navigating the Feeling of Directionlessness in Your Twenties

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Your twenties are often described as a time to explore, grow, and find your footing in the world. But what happens when you feel like you’re stuck, unsure of your next step, or completely directionless? If you’re experiencing this, you’re not alone. In fact, it’s incredibly common, and here’s why that’s okay—and what you can do about it.

Why Feeling Directionless in Your Twenties is Normal

1. Societal Pressure

There’s often an unspoken expectation to have everything figured out: your career, relationships, finances, and future. But life rarely follows a straight path, and societal pressures can make you feel like you’re falling behind when you’re actually right on track for your unique journey.

2. Big Life Transitions

Your twenties are filled with major changes, like moving out, starting a job, ending a relationship, or even switching careers. These shifts can feel overwhelming and leave you questioning your direction.

3. The Exploration Phase

This decade is meant to be about trial and error. It’s a time to test the waters, figure out what resonates with you, and pivot when something doesn’t feel right.

4. Comparison Culture

Social media often exacerbates feelings of inadequacy. Seeing curated versions of others’ lives can make you feel like you’re the only one struggling. Remember: everyone’s journey is different, and the highlight reels don’t tell the full story.

Reframing the Experience

Instead of seeing directionlessness as a problem, consider it an opportunity. This period is about exploration, self-discovery, and growth. Clarity often comes through action, even if it feels uncertain at first. Trust that you’re learning, even when the path feels unclear.

Practical Steps to Navigate Feeling Directionless

1. Reconnect with Yourself

  • Reflect on what brings you joy or curiosity. Journaling, meditation, or simply spending time in nature can help you tune into your inner voice.
  • Ask yourself: What excites me? What values matter most to me?

2. Explore Without Commitment

  • Try new hobbies, take courses, or volunteer. Exposure to different activities and people can spark unexpected passions.
  • Remember, exploration isn’t about finding the perfect answer; it’s about learning what works and what doesn’t.

3. Set Small, Flexible Goals

  • Break big dreams into manageable steps. For example, “Attend one networking event this month” or “Read a book about a field I’m curious about.”
  • Allow yourself to pivot as you gain more clarity.

4. Build Skills

  • Pursue certifications, online courses, or projects that align with your interests. Even if you’re unsure of your final destination, building skills will always serve you.

5. Seek Support

  • Talk to mentors, coaches, or peers who can provide guidance and perspective. Sometimes an outside view can help you see possibilities you’ve overlooked.

6. Practice Self-Care

  • Take care of your mental and physical health. This is the foundation for navigating uncertainty with resilience.

Journal Prompts to Guide Reflection

  1. What’s one thing I’ve always wanted to try but never had the courage to?
  2. How would I define a meaningful life right now?
  3. What are my top three core values, and how can I align my actions with them?

Words of Encouragement

If you’re unsure what to pursue in life right now, consider this: Pursue yourself. Focus on becoming the healthiest, happiest, most present, and most confident version of who you are. When you take the time to nurture yourself, the right path will often reveal itself naturally.

Your twenties are about figuring things out, not having everything figured out. Feeling directionless isn’t a failure; it’s a part of the process. Trust yourself, take small steps forward, and remember—you’re not alone. The clarity you seek will come, one step at a time.

2024: A Year of Duality and Growth

2024: A Year of Duality and Growth

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WOW, this was a year. 2024, took me on one wild ride—from the highest highs to the lowest lows, from moments of clarity to the vast unknown.

This year was as much about endings as beginnings. It reminded me that change is the only constant, and even in uncertainty, there’s magic in trusting the flow. From heartbreak to healing, adventure to stillness, and letting go to holding on, 2024 taught me how to embrace duality—the balance of joy and pain, growth and discomfort, clarity and confusion.

Stepping Boldly into 2024

My word of the year was bold, and 2024 challenged me to live by it in every way possible. Being bold meant taking risks—whether it was traveling solo, leaning into vulnerability, or stepping out of my comfort zone to pursue new connections and opportunities. It meant speaking up for myself, trusting my intuition, and saying yes to the unknown.

I stepped boldly into growth, allowing heartbreak to crack me open to greater self-love and clarity. I dared to let go of what no longer served me and embraced the freedom that comes with trusting life’s flow. Being bold wasn’t always easy, but it was always worth it.

2024 Taught Me:

  • Even when life feels uncertain, there’s magic in the unknown and joy in letting go of control to embrace the adventure of life.
  • Some of the best memories come from unplanned, spontaneous moments, and life is more fun when I trust the flow.
  • I’m more resilient and stronger than I ever thought possible, capable of facing challenges and emerging brighter.
  • The right people will stick by me, even when I don’t have it all figured out, and nurturing friendships is one of the greatest investments I can make.
  • The power of true connection—opening up to others creates beauty, strength, and a sense of belonging.
  • Taking risks, stepping out of my comfort zone, and doing things “for the plot” lead to the most exciting and rewarding chapters in life.
  • Heartbreak doesn’t break me—it helps me rebuild, and sometimes I need to thank the past for leaving to embrace a better future.
  • Growth comes from life’s toughest lessons, and healing is a never-ending journey of rediscovery and renewal.
  • Gratitude transforms everything, turning what I have into enough and every moment into something to cherish.
  • Life is short, so I should celebrate everything—big or small—and find joy in experiences, not things.
  • Endings can be new beginnings, and sometimes the best chapters start when I close the old ones.
  • If they wanted to, they would—and I deserve effort, consistency, and commitment in my relationships.
  • Independence is empowering, but leaning on others brings strength and community when I need it most.
  • Life is about seasons and storms, and with every challenge comes the opportunity to grow and find clarity.
  • My twenties are a revolving door of losing and finding myself, each cycle shaping new layers of who I am.
  • My rediscovered love of yoga and movement reconnects me with my mind, body, and soul, grounding and healing me.
  • Healing tools like journaling, breathwork, and sound baths work magic, helping me release what no longer serves me.
  • Life often works itself out when I’m open to the surprises and opportunities the universe brings my way.
  • Everything happens for a reason—people, lessons, and challenges arrive to align me with my path.
  • The most important relationship is the one I have with myself—learning to love and nurture who I am lays the foundation for everything else.
  • Old keys won’t open new doors, and leaving what no longer serves me makes space for something better.
  • Travel isn’t just about places—it’s about new perspectives, connections, and growth beyond my comfort zone.
  • Some of life’s best insights and growth come from circles and communities of like-minded women.
  • Comparison is the thief of joy—everyone’s journey is unique, and embracing mine is enough.
  • As I walk, the path appears, and trusting the process leads to unexpected and beautiful destinations.
  • Heartbreak, uncertainty, and pain can be alchemized into growth, strength, and beauty when I embrace the lessons within them.
  • What I seek from others is often what I need to give myself—love, acceptance, and compassion start within.
  • Dogs are pure joy and a reminder to embrace the simple pleasures of life.
  • Every connection—whether brief or lasting—serves a purpose, shaping my journey in ways I may not always see at first.

And most of all:

  • Life is a beautiful, evolving journey—one where I’m constantly learning, growing, and discovering the joy in every moment.

2024 Travels:

This year took me across the globe, and each journey was a chapter of its own:

  • Turks & Caicos: Kicking off the year surrounded by turquoise waters and family warmth.

  • Grand Cayman: Adventures with friends, laughter, and unforgettable sunsets.

  • Waco, TX: A meaningful trip filled with family time and exploring small towns.

  • Copenhagen, Denmark: My first solo trip—a transformative experience of independence and discovery.

  • Charleston, SC: A birthday celebration filled with charm, history, and quality time with my mom.
Travel this year wasn’t just about exploring new places; it was about expanding my perspective and stepping boldly into the unknown.

Top 10 Phrases & Mottos:

  1. Trust the flow.
  2. Do it for the plot.
  3. Let it go.
  4. Gratitude transforms everything.
  5. The most important relationship is the one I have with myself.
  6. Sometimes the path appears as you walk it.
  7. Life is about experiences, not things.
  8. Heartbreak cracks you open for something greater.
  9. Comparison is the thief of joy.
  10. Live for the journey, not the destination.

Top 10 Words to Describe 2024:

  1. Transformative – I’ve gone through significant personal growth and change.
  2. Resilient – I’ve proven my ability to bounce back and adapt, especially during challenging times.
  3. Adventurous – This year has been about embracing the unknown, whether through travel, spontaneous decisions, or new experiences.
  4. Grateful – I’ve focused on appreciating the people, moments, and lessons that came my way.
  5. Empowered – I’ve stepped into your strength, learning to trust yourself and take charge of my journey.
  6. Connected – My relationships, both personal and professional, have deepened and expanded.
  7. Joyful – I’ve made room for fun, play, and spontaneity, finding joy in the unexpected.
  8. Reflective – I’ve taken time to pause, learn from the past, and grow from my experiences.
  9. Community-driven – This year has been about building connections with like-minded people and growing within supportive circles.
  10. Free – I’ve embraced letting go of control and have found liberation in being more open to the flow of life.

A Year for the Plot

2024 reminded me that life is about the plot—the messy, beautiful, unpredictable moments that shape who we are. It taught me to embrace the duality of joy and pain, growth and discomfort, and certainty and confusion. Through it all, I’ve learned that the journey is just as important as the destination.

Looking Forward

As I close the chapter on 2024, I’m carrying its lessons with me into 2025. This year taught me that life is an ever-evolving journey—one where I’m constantly learning, growing, and discovering new layers of strength and joy. I’m grateful for every moment, every memory, and every lesson that shaped me along the way.

What lessons did 2024 teach you? Take a moment to reflect, celebrate your growth, and look forward to the next chapter.

Here’s to all the highs, the lows, and everything in between. Looking forward to what 2025 holds.

The storm, painful as it is, can be a gift.

The storm, painful as it is, can be a gift.

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When you come out of the storm,  you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what it’s all about. 

– Haruki Murakami 

This year, I’ve learned what it means to walk through a storm—to face heartbreak, uncertainty, and the profound waves of change that come with letting go. Haruki Murakami’s words have resonated deeply with me: “When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what it’s all about.”

At the start of this year, I didn’t see the storm coming. I was in a long-term relationship, comfortable but unknowingly settling, and my life felt mapped out. Then, everything shifted. My five-year relationship ended, leaving me to confront not only the heartbreak but also the loss of the future I thought I had. I felt disoriented, like the ground beneath me had disappeared.

But here’s what I’ve discovered: the storm, painful as it is, can be a gift. It strips away what no longer serves you and forces you to rebuild, to redefine who you are. In the process, you find strength and clarity you never knew you had. It’s messy and raw, but it’s real. And on the other side, you emerge—not the same person who walked in, but someone stronger, more self-aware, and more aligned with their true self.

For me, this journey has been about coming back to myself. I’ve learned to find joy in my own company, to cherish my independence, and to nurture friendships that fill my soul. This year, I traveled solo to Copenhagen, threw a party for my birthday—a gathering of friends who showed up to celebrate me, and hosted a Christmas party that brought so much warmth and laughter into my aparment. I also went camping for the first time, stepping outside my comfort zone and discovering a new appreciation for nature and simplicity. Each of these experiences was a moment of pure joy and gratitude, a reminder that the love and connection I was seeking externally already existed within my community and within myself.

I’ve also learned to let go of control. This summer, I stopped over-planning and embraced spontaneity. From jumping into a lake with friends to traveling solo to Copenhagen, I found magic in the unexpected. These moments taught me that life’s most beautiful experiences often happen when you leave room for the wildcard.

The storm has changed me. It’s helped me see that heartbreak doesn’t just break you—it breaks you open. It’s an invitation to grow, to heal, and to create a life that’s even better than the one you thought you wanted. As painful as it was, I’ve come to thank my ex for letting me go. I realize now that staying would have meant settling, and I deserve so much more than that.

If you’re in a storm right now, I want you to know that it’s okay to feel lost and scared. It’s okay to cry and to not have all the answers. But trust this: you will come out on the other side. And when you do, you’ll look back and see how far you’ve come, how much you’ve grown, and how beautifully you’ve transformed.

Murakami’s quote isn’t just about surviving the storm; it’s about embracing the change it brings. This year has been my storm, and while I’m still navigating its aftermath, I know I’m not the same person I was. I’m someone stronger, more vibrant, and more open to the possibilities of life.

If you’re reflecting on your own storm, I encourage you to pause and honor your growth. Journal about who you were before the storm and who you are now. Ask yourself: What did the storm take from me, and what did it give me? What am I grateful for in this transformation? You might be surprised at how much beauty there is in the chaos.

The storm changes us, yes, but that’s what it’s all about.