Be Like an Owl: Sit Back, Observe, Sweep In

Be Like an Owl: Sit Back, Observe, Sweep In

In the wild, owls are masters of patience and stealth. They perch silently, watching their surroundings with keen eyes, waiting for the perfect moment to act. Their ability to see in the dark and hear the faintest sounds allows them to move with precision and purpose.

The lesson here? You don’t always need to be the loudest in the room. My whole life, I’ve been the quiet observer. It’s only recently that I’ve learned how to step into my power and see the beauty of being quiet and observing before acting.

Owls symbolize inner wisdom, change, transformation, intuitive development, good luck, and self-actualization. In Native American cultures, owls were revered as symbols of protection and intuition, believed to possess special spiritual powers and regarded as messengers between humans and the spirit world.

“You’re like the owl and finally seem to have your voice to stand your ground. You sit back, observe, then sweep in with impact.”

What Can We Learn from Owls?

Owls offer us profound lessons in observation, patience, and wisdom that we can apply to various aspects of our lives:

  1. The Power of Observation:
    1. Quiet Strength: Owls observe their surroundings in silence, teaching us the value of sitting back and quietly assessing situations before reacting. By observing, we can gain a deeper understanding and make more informed decisions.
    2. Learning and Adapting: Just as owls watch and learn about their environment, we can become more aware of the nuances in our interactions and adapt our approaches accordingly.
  2. Embracing Silence:
    1. Intuitive Development: Silence allows us to tune into our inner wisdom and intuition. Owls remind us that we don’t always need to be the loudest in the room to make an impact; sometimes, quiet presence speaks volumes.
    2. Inner Calm: Taking moments of silence can help us find inner calm and clarity, enabling us to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.
  3. Patience and Timing:
    1. Precision in Action: Owls are known for their patience, waiting for the perfect moment to strike. This teaches us the importance of timing and precision in our actions. By being patient, we can achieve more effective and successful outcomes.
    2. Trusting the Process: Embracing patience helps us trust the process of growth and transformation. Just as an owl waits for the right opportunity, we can wait for the right moment to act or make decisions.
  4. Adapting to Change:
    1. Flexibility and Resilience: Owls adapt to their environment and changes in it. This reminds us to stay flexible and resilient in the face of life’s uncertainties and challenges.
    2. Welcoming Transformation: Change and transformation are natural parts of life. Owls show us that by accepting and adapting to change, we can grow and evolve.
  5. Wisdom and Insight:
    1. Gaining Clarity: Owls symbolize wisdom and insight. By observing and reflecting, we can gain clarity and understanding, leading to wiser choices and actions.
    2. Learning from Experience: Owls’ keen vision in the dark represents our ability to see through challenges and learn from experiences. This helps us grow stronger and more insightful over time.
  6. Living Intentionally:
    1. Purposeful Actions: Every action an owl takes is purposeful and deliberate. This encourages us to live with intention, making mindful choices that align with our values and goals.
    2. Conscious Presence: Owls remind us to be present in the moment, fully aware and engaged with our surroundings. This mindfulness enhances our experiences and connections with others.

Journal Prompts Related to Owls, Observing, and Wisdom

1. Reflect on Observation:

  • When was the last time you sat back and observed a situation without immediately reacting? What did you learn from that experience?
  • How can you incorporate more moments of quiet observation into your daily routine?

2. Embracing Silence:

  • In what areas of your life do you feel the need to be more vocal or active? How might stepping back and observing instead benefit you?
  • How does silence help you understand yourself and others better?

3. Inner Wisdom:

  • What are some instances where your intuition guided you correctly? How did you recognize and act on that intuitive feeling?
  • How can you cultivate a deeper sense of inner wisdom and trust in your own decisions?

4. Learning from Nature:

  • Think about a time when you felt connected to nature. How did that experience influence your perspective on life and your personal growth?
  • What lessons can you learn from observing animals in the wild, particularly the patience and precision of an owl?

5. Change and Transformation:

  • How have you embraced change and transformation in your life? What role did observation and patience play in that process?
  • Reflect on a time when waiting and watching led to a significant personal breakthrough or decision.

6. Quiet Strength:

  • Describe a situation where you demonstrated quiet strength. How did it impact the outcome?
  • How can you balance being assertive with maintaining a sense of calm and observant wisdom?

7. Insight and Clarity:

  • What practices help you gain clarity and insight when faced with a difficult decision?
  • How can you create a personal ritual to tap into your inner wisdom and observe your thoughts and feelings more deeply?

8. Symbolism and Intuition:

  • What symbols or signs do you notice in your life that guide you or provide insight? How do they make you feel?
  • Reflect on a dream or a recurring symbol in your life. What intuitive message might it be trying to convey to you?

Embrace the wisdom of the owl. You don’t always need to be the loudest in the room.

Observe, learn, and when the time is right, sweep in and make your move. 🦉

Solo travel insights from a first-timer

Solo travel insights from a first-timer

If you want to feel empowered and independent, take a solo trip. 

Less than two months ago, a significant change in my life completely altered my summer travel plans. Determined to embrace adventure and not let these changes deter me, I decided to have my European girl summer—solo. 

The Solo Adventure

One of the best things I did for myself was taking a solo trip to Europe. It was empowering and healing all at once. When I got uninvited from a 10-day Europe trip that was less than a month away, I was heartbroken. I sat in that grief for a moment, then decided to take action. I researched places I might want to go and made a list. I asked a few friends if they could join me, but none could get off work on such short notice. This led me to take a solo trip.

I landed on Copenhagen, Denmark, for no other reason than Delta had a good flight deal and I heard it was safe. Ticket booked, leaving in 20 days. Boom. Hotel booked, boom. Those two things—flight and hotel booked—were empowering in themselves. The day came, I boarded the flight for my solo venture. Although traveling solo on planes was not new to me, going to Europe alone was a new adventure.

The Lesson Learned

This trip taught me that I am indeed smart, empowered, and capable of doing things on my own. Heartbreak had made me doubt myself, but this journey showed me that I could navigate the world solo and come out stronger. It also reminded me that life is full of unexpected connections and moments of joy; we just have to be open.

Here’s what I learned on my solo trip:

Embrace the Unknown and Be Open to Surprises

  • Let Life Surprise You: Traveling alone teaches you to embrace the unexpected and appreciate the beauty of spontaneity. The best moments often come unplanned.
  • Be Open: Keep your mind and heart open to new experiences, people, and places. Openness invites opportunities and enriches your journey.

Personal Growth and Empowerment

  • Discover Your Inner Badass: Solo travel empowers you to trust yourself and realize how capable and resilient you are. You can navigate anything life throws your way.
  • Empowerment in Solitude: Traveling alone isn’t just about seeing new places; it’s about proving to yourself that you can thrive independently.
  • Life Goes On: No matter what challenges you face, life continues to unfold beautifully, just as it should. Keep moving forward.

Connections and Community

  • Right Place, Right Time: Serendipitous encounters can happen anywhere. You never know who you’ll meet and how they might impact your life.
  • The Universe Has Your Back: Trust that everything happens for a reason and the universe is guiding you to where you need to be.
  • Connections Await: The world is full of amazing people waiting to cross paths with you. Stay open to making new friends and connections.
  • The Right People: You’ll encounter mature, kind, and inspiring individuals who can positively influence your journey. They might be your airplane seatmate, you never know. 

Joy in the Journey

  • Exploration Is Infinite: The world is vast and full of wonders. Keep exploring and expanding your horizons.
  • Savor Your Own Company: Learn to enjoy and find comfort in being alone. Solo dining or exploring can be a liberating and joyful experience. Remember, you’re not alone, you’re with yourself.
  • Travel Renews the Soul: Travel has a unique power to refresh, enrich, and transform your spirit. Every journey is a step towards personal growth.
  • Be Spontaneous: Allow space for unexpected adventures. Sometimes, the best experiences are those you didn’t plan for.
  • Experiences Over Things: Cherish the experiences you have over material possessions. They create lasting memories and personal growth.

Practical Tips for Solo Travelers

  • Master Public Transport: If you can navigate a new city’s public transport system, you can handle just about anything.
  • Everything Is Figureoutable: Challenges may arise, but with patience and resourcefulness, everything can be figured out.
  • Be Safe and Smart: Trust your instincts and stay aware of your surroundings. Safety is always a priority but don’t forget to have fun.

Trust the Process

  • Trust Yourself: You’re smarter and more capable than you think. Have confidence in your decisions and abilities.
  • Be Flexible: Plans may change, and that’s okay. Adaptability is key to enjoying your journey.
  • Be Brave and Bold: Step out of your comfort zone and embrace new challenges with courage and optimism.
  • Let Travel Transform You: Every trip leaves a mark on your soul. Allow each experience to shape and transform you.

Finding Joy and Fulfillment

  • Enjoy the Solo Journey: Appreciate the freedom of traveling on your own terms and timeline. It’s a unique and empowering experience.
  • It’s Okay to Be “Just One”: Whether it’s booking a table for one or joining a tour solo, embrace being your own best company. Plus, you’ll find a lot of other people who are traveling solo. 
  • Notice Your Feelings: Pay attention to how you feel in your own company. Solo travel is a time for introspection and self-awareness.
  • Explore with Joy: Have fun exploring on your own. It’s an opportunity to do exactly what you want, when you want.

The Beauty of Connection

  • Be Open to New Connections: Whether it’s a fellow solo traveler or the person sitting next to you on the plane, be open to meeting new people.
  • Impactful Encounters: Everyone you meet has the potential to leave a lasting impact on your life. Embrace these connections, no matter how brief.

Solo travel is a journey of empowerment, discovery, and profound personal growth. It’s about learning to trust yourself, embracing the unknown, and finding joy in your own company. So, go alone, be brave, and let the world surprise you. 

Solo adventure to Copenhagen

Solo adventure to Copenhagen

May 31 – June 5, 2024

Copenhagen, Denmark wasn’t even on my radar until just 20 days before setting out on my first solo international trip. Less than two months ago, a significant change in my life completely altered my summer travel plans. Determined to embrace adventure and not let these changes deter me, I decided to have my European girl summer—solo. 

In light of a big life change, a solo trip to Europe seemed like the perfect way to heal and find myself again. I wanted to prove to myself that I was independent and capable of figuring things out on my own. 

After researching various destinations, constantly checking Delta flight deals, and reassuring my mom about the safety of solo travel, I chose Copenhagen.

… and that was the best decision, at the perfect time.

Apart from a brief bout of food poisoning, everything on this trip went smoothly. It almost felt too easy. Copenhagen was the perfect destination for a solo trip.

“I had one intention for this spontaneous trip. Find cafes to sip coffee, write, and heal. The trip exceeded my expectations in the most wild, unexplainable way. I made new connections, met people who taught me big lessons and reminded me that life goes on and has a funny way of working out. It’s funny what happens when you let go of control and go with the flow and pull of the universe. Keep going, keep healing, life indeed does go on. Trust your journey; it’s going to work out in the wildest ways.”

About Copenhagen

Copenhagen, the capital of Denmark, is known for its vibrant neighborhoods, safety, and commitment to sustainability. It’s a city where modernity meets historic charm, offering a perfect blend of cultural experiences and green living. At the heart of Copenhagen’s appeal is the concept of “hygge,” a unique Danish term that embodies coziness, comfort, and a sense of contentment. Whether you’re enjoying a warm coffee in a cozy cafe or strolling through its picturesque streets, Copenhagen invites you to slow down and savor life’s simple pleasures.

My Itinerary

Day 0: Travel Day

– Flight: Overnight flight to CPH Airport, approximately 7 hours from JFK.

Day 1: Arrival and Initial Exploration

– Arrival: Landed in Copenhagen around 11 a.m., cleared customs, and took the metro to Rådhuspladsen.

– Check-In: CitizenM hotel, located next to City Hall Square. Early check-in was smooth.

– Coffee & Lunch: Ø12 Coffee & Eatery for an Americano and avocado toast with a poached egg.

– Explore: Walked around City Hall Square and shopped along Strøget.

– Boat Tour: Copenhagen Sightseeing Classic Canal Tour with Live Guide.

– Wine: Melo Wine Bar for a relaxing evening. Great service. 

– Dinner: Met a friend from the plane and his cousin at Restaurant Karla for Danish food.

Day 2: Central Copenhagen

– Coffee & Breakfast: Quick stop at Buka for coffee and yogurt. Not my favorite coffee, but easy and quick.

– Walking Tour: Grand Tour of Copenhagen, a free walking tour starting from Rådhuspladsen and ending at Royal Palace of Amalienborg. About 2.5 hours, good way to see the city.

– Second Coffee: Hans Coffee, a mid-tour break. Great place near Strøget. 

– Explore: Walked through Nyhavn, known for its colorful houses and lively atmosphere.

– Lunch: Broens Food Market for a variety of local dishes. Many options. I tried the smørrebrød, open faced sandwich. 

– Swim: lsland Brygges Harbour Baths, a highlight of the trip. Swim in pools filled with Baltic Sea waters and hang out with the locals. 

– Dinner & Activity: Visited Tivoli Gardens, one of the oldest amusement parks in the world. Grabbed dinner at Tivoli Food Hall, but I’m not sure I recommend it since I ended up getting food poisoning from my meal. 

– Nightcap: Enjoyed a glass of wine at the hotel bar and rooftop. 

Day 3: City Center

– Morning Coffee: Democratic Coffee for a strong start to the day. I woke up with food poisoning, so I took it slow with food.

– Activities: Climbed Rundetaarn for city views and unique structure. Walked to Rosenborg Castle Gardens, Botanical Gardens, and Landemærket Street for sightseeing. 

– Lunch: 42 Raw for a yogurt bowl and green juice.

– Swim: Another relaxing afternoon at lsland Brygges Harbour Baths. Hung out until about 7 p.m. Favorite place. 

Day 4: Nørrebro, Fredericksburg, and Christianshavn District

– Coffee: Coffee Collective, highly recommended. My favorite coffee shop. I recommend the filtered coffee option. 

– Explore: Nørrebro District and Superkilen Park. Easy metro ride. Check out the vintage stores. 

– Breakfast: Anderson & Mallard for another coffee and yogurt.

– Lunch: Torvehallerne Food Hall. I was still sick so I just looked around. 

– Explore: Took the metro to Christianshavn, checked out the GANNI Postmodern store, and went to the top of Church of Our Savior. A tall climb to the top and a bit scary, but worth the views.

– Dinner: Light meal at Grod.

Day 5: Vesterbro, Christianshavn, and Christiania

– Morning Coffee: Hans Coffee, my second favorite coffee shop. 

– Explore: Vesterbro, Meatpacking District, Prolog Coffee Bar, and Fisketorvet Mall. Ride the metro one more stop to Fredericksburg and check out the gardens.  

– Tour: Free Walking Tour of Christianshavn and exploration of Christiania, the free town.

– Dinner: Ride the 2A bus to Reffen for street food and harbor views.

Day 6: Wrap Up

– Coffee: Another visit to Coffee Collective for their exceptional filter coffee.

– Breakfast: Quick yogurt from Buka.

– Checkout: Packed up, checked out, and took the metro back to the airport.

Accommodations

I stayed at CitizenM, which provided a small yet functional room, typical for Europe. Its central location near the city center and shopping area was perfect. The hotel had a fun, funky vibe, and the staff was accommodating.

Transportation

Copenhagen’s public transportation is easy to navigate with three metro lines and user-friendly directions via Maps. Buy tickets, use the Copenhagen Card, or City Pass for access to all transportation. It operates on an honor system, with occasional ticket checks, I only had two ticket checks the entire week.

Tips for Tourists

– Safety: Copenhagen is very safe, though it’s always wise to stay alert.

– Cycling Culture: Bikes dominate the city, and they rarely stop for pedestrians unless at traffic lights, so be cautious.

– Traffic Rules: Pedestrians must obey traffic signals; jaywalking is not common.

– Public Transportation: The system operates largely on an honor system. Occasionally, someone will check tickets, but there’s no need to scan in or out.

– Smoking: Smoking is common throughout the city.

– Metro & Bus: The metro is straightforward, with the M3 (red line) running in a circle and other lines extending further.

– Cleanliness: While not as spotless as neighboring Sweden, Copenhagen has a charming, slightly gritty vibe.

– Payment: Cards are widely accepted, and it’s usually best to use DKK currency when paying. I never used or brought cash. 

– Language: English is widely spoken, so communication is easy.

– Tipping: Tipping practices vary; it’s about 50/50, so follow your comfort level.

– Patience & Hygge: Be patient when waiting for services. Embrace the concept of hygge—relax and enjoy the moment.

– Tourist Cards: The Copenhagen Card is great for attractions and transport, while the City Pass is ideal for those focused on transportation. I got more value out of the City Pass which allowed me full access to transportation for a designated amount of hours and that was a better value for me.

– Trip Duration: Six days are ample for exploring Copenhagen, but consider adding a day for a trip to Malmö, Sweden, if you have time.

Final Thoughts

My solo trip to Copenhagen was a transformative experience. This spontaneous solo journey not only allowed me to explore a beautiful city but also provided a path for healing and self-discovery. Despite the food poisoning, I left Copenhagen feeling empowered and changed.

This spontaneous trip, planned in under 20 days, was a testament to letting life guide and surprise me, disconnecting from routine, and continuing my healing journey. It exceeded all expectations, offering unexpected encounters and profound lessons along the way.”

Waco, Texas Recap

Waco, Texas Recap

Meet me at Magnolia! 

Welcome to Waco, Texas, where the charm of Chip & Jo’s Magnolia empire is just the beginning. Beyond the allure of the famous Fixer Upper duo, Waco offers a genuine small-town experience, where locals greet you with a smile, and visitors are welcomed with open arms. Nestled along the I-35 corridor between Dallas and Austin (yes, the same 35W that traverses Minnesota!), Waco attracts travelers with its array of shops and abundance of dining options. Founded in 1849 by the Huaco Indians, whose legacy still echoes through the streets of present-day downtown, Waco is a treasure trove waiting to be discovered.

Location:

Fly into Dallas, rent a car, drive about 1.5 hours to Waco, TX. 

If you plan to visit Magnolia, choose an AirBNB within walking distance. We liked ours which was hosted by Andrew. He has many houses in the same area. We stayed at Gloria Manor. 

Depending on the season and length of time you may plan to visit, you may want to choose an AirBNB with a pool for more entertainment options and lounging.

Things to do:

Visit Magnolia Market at the Silos – this was the main attraction of Waco! There’s so much to do. Grab coffee, walk, shop, hang out on the grounds, grab a cupcake… Great energy. Everyone is friendly.  

Walk & Shop in Downtown Waco – the stores at the Silos, The Findery, Ramble & Co., and Fabled Bookshop were a few of my favorite shops.

Waco Downtown Farmers Market – stop by the local farmers market Saturday morning. Lots of vendors. Located near the courthouse and close to the suspension bridge. 

Walk the Waco Suspension Bridge – Head toward the Brazos River to walk across the suspension bridge and walk the river trail. 

Day Trip to Fort Worth – While you’re “in the area” check out the stockyards in Fort Worth. It’s about an hour and half from Waco, but only 30 minutes from Dallas airport. 

Coffee:

Magnolia Press – the coffee shop at the Magnolia Silos. The workers are friendly. Grab coffee and sit outside in the garden! 

Glory Bell – coffee shop that also functions as a church. Good coffee, large sitting area.

Mamaka Bowls – I went here on accident. Drip coffee wasn’t that good, but the smoothie bowls looked good.

Heritage Coffee – coffee truck at the Saturday farmer’s market. They make all their own flavorings. 

Bitty & Beau’s – I didn’t make it here but had it recommended. The employees are people with special needs which I would’ve loved to support. 

Food:

Milo – best meal of the trip. Cute vibe, lots of plants. Make reservations. The carrots and brussels sprouts were excellent starters. I enjoyed the sautéed shrimp meal. 

Cajun Craft – a local dive! This was close to our AirBNB and felt like a secret little spot. Order the jambalaya and sit out back on the patio. 

Maria Mezcaleria – Mexican food. Although I didn’t eat here, my family said it was very good and highly recommend.

Milk Bottle Cookies – I’m not a big sweets person but these cookies were worth the gluten and sugar. I’d recommend the cookies and cream. While you’re there, pop next door to Ramble & Co. for t-shirts and good vibes.

Food Trucks – although I didn’t personally eat at any food trucks, there were many in the Magnolia silos area that looked good. 

Other Notes:

One or two days is enough time in Waco! The main attraction is the Magnolia Silos and there is some more shopping in town.

Magnolia was much busier on the weekend but calm on Thursday. Note, it’s closed Sunday along with many places in town. 

We visited in early-mid May and the magnolia flowers and trees were just starting to bloom.

From strolling through the quaint downtown streets to indulging in the culinary delights of local eateries, my journey through Waco was nothing short of charming. Whether you’re drawn by the allure of Magnolia or simply seeking the charm of a genuine Texan town, Waco offers an unforgettable experience that leaves a lasting impression on the heart. Until next time, Waco! Yee haw!

British West Indies: Grand Cayman Recap

British West Indies: Grand Cayman Recap

March 2024

It’s a British West Indies travel type of winter. This month, Grand Cayman

Grand Cayman is the largest of the Cayman Islands. It’s a British Overseas Territory in the Caribbean. The three Cayman Islands, Grand Cayman, Cayman Brac and Little Cayman, are in the western Caribbean about 272 miles south of Cuba, 450 miles south of Miami, Florida, and 272 miles northwest of Jamaica. The Cayman Islands is a famous tourist destination for its beautiful beaches, clear waters, excellent diving, water sports, and snorkeling excursions. It is also popular for cruise ships. 

Things to do:

  • Snorkeling: Endless snorkeling! There’s easy access to snorkel right off the beaches or you can take a boat out to a larger reef. Turtles and a lobster were among our most exciting sightings. 
  • Starfish Point: Take a boat or drive out to see the starfish at Starfish Point. You can hold the starfish, just be sure to always keep them in the water. Beware of jellyfish in the water here. 
  • Stingray City: This is a total tourist destination, but when else can you swim and be surrounded by stingrays? Only accessible by boat. We did a four-hour private boat tour that brought us to see Stingray City, snorkeling, and Starfish Point. Our boat driver helped us to pet the stingray, give them a kiss, and get a nice back massage.
  • Rum Point: Drive to the north side of the island for the best beaches. Gorgeous waters, beautiful homes, and nice sand. Grab food and drinks at the restaurant and take advantage of the free chairs and swimming area. Walk down the beach for the most epic sandbar. We wandered out multiple times to float and spotted a few stingrays. This is also a good spot to snorkel but does get busy with boats. Fish can be seen from the beach. It’s a good spot for paddleboarding or kayaking too. Well worth the 45-minute drive from Seven Mile Beach area. We loved it and went two days. 
  • Walking: There’s plenty of beach and sidewalk to be walked on island. Seven Mile beach is walkable along all the big hotels and provides gorgeous views. Caymana Bay is a good place to walk if you prefer sidewalks, window shopping, and marina views. 
  • Beaches: The main activity in Grand Cayman is the beaches, obviously. My favorites were Rum Point and Public Beach. Good swimming, floating in the waves, and plenty of snorkeling. 
  • Yoga: I happened upon a lovely yoga studio, One Heart Cayman, and fell in love. I attended three of the 6 a.m. classes. It was a great way to start the day. I’d went to the Baptist and Ashtanga style classes, both unique and challenging in their own ways. The studio was also heated to about 94 degrees, which I loved. The instructors were great, and I enjoyed practicing with the locals. 
  • Shopping: Although there are a few shopping areas like Caymana Bay and George Town, Grand Cayman seems to be better known for the beach and food scene. There is a craft market in Caymana Bay on Wednesday, although it was sparse. A lot of jewelry stores, harder to find a t-shirt. 
  • Eating: Grand Cayman has a good food scene. I wasn’t disappointed with any of my meals. The grocery stores also have all the options you could need for a week.

Beaches:

  • Seven Mile Beach: The hot spot in Grand Cayman. White sand, clear blue waters. This is where all the big hotels are located. Great for walking and beaching. Note, yes, it’s said to be seven miles, but if you want to walk the entire beach, be prepared to walk through water and over rocks. 
  • Cemetery Beach: This beach is literally next to a cemetery. Easy beach access and snorkeling. Decent for walking. No chairs, just bring a towel to lay on. Walk past the cemetery to access. Free parking across the street.
  • Public Beach: A great beach with rental chairs, white sand, and blue waters. It’s very busy where the rental chairs are located, but it’s easy to walk down the beach to less crowded areas. We spend a lot of time floating out with the waves. It was fun! I think this is part of Seven Mile Beach. 
  • Rum Point Beach: My favorite beach in Grand Cayman. Located about 45-minutes from Seven Mile Beach area, but 100% worth the drive (or boat ride). Stunning water. I can’t even describe it. So clear. Great overall vibe. Free chairs, just support the restaurant. Enjoy long beach walks admiring the water, houses, and wildlife. Also a great spot for paddleboarding, kayaking, and snorkeling.  
  • Spott’s Beach: This beach is on the way to Rum Point. It’s worth stopping to check it out. It was too wavy for our liking, but it is pretty. 
  • Governor’s Beach: We didn’t spend any time here, but I did walk past. It’s located in the middle of Seven Mile beach. It looked like there was parking but no chairs. 

Food:

The food scene in Grand Cayman was delightful. There were plenty of options for everyone. It was less common to find food located on the waterfront. The grocery stores also have everything you could need for a week of vacation. As typical, expect “island” prices to be higher. 

  • Piccolino’s: The daily coffee spot. Excellent Americano’s. Good protein bars too. This was open at 7 a.m. daily and a three-minute walk from our VRBO. By the end of the trip, the baristas knew my order and would have it started by the time I got to the counter. 
  • Ms. Piper’s: This location wins for best vibes. Cute, charming, and lots of pink. I enjoyed the chickpea salad with chicken. Located in Seven Mile Beach area, close walk to our VRBO. Delightful. 
  • Agua: This goes down as a top ten restaurant for me. It’s located in Caymana Bay, I’d recommend reserving a table outside. The cauliflower wings are a must for the appetizer. I had the Mahi dish. The presentation and taste were 12/10. 
  • Casa 43: Excellent tacos, good prices, tasty drinks. This is a must go. Very casual. Quick service. I had the shrimp taco and the most amazing cauliflower taco. 
  • Saltwater Grill: Very nice place. Good patio. I was happy with the Mahi Mahi dish and glass of wine. A dressier vibe. 
  • XQ’s: Nothing special to write home about, it was just next to our VRBO.
  • The Rum Deck: This is located at Rum Point. Grab food and drinks here and you can use the chairs! I enjoyed the quinoa salad. 
  • Jessie’s Juice Bar: Good green smoothies. Located in Caymana Bay. Cute vibe. Organic lovers dream. 
  • Gelato & Co.: What’s a trip without a sweet treat? Located in Caymana Bay. Can’t go wrong with a scoop of gelato. 
  • Scoops Cayman: Another spot for a sweet treat. Located on the main Seven Mile Beach road. A small selection of flavors, still tasty. 

Things to know:

  • Drive on the left, give way at roundabouts
  • Cayman Dollar, places will charge U.S. dollar
  • English language
  • March is the start of busy season, Christmas is busy too (apparently)
  • Good sunshine, warm (80’s), and a few short rainstorms
  • U.S. style outlets
  • Tap water is safe to drink, and tastes very good
  • Chickens everywhere
  • Jellyfish are in the waters, more common in the northern part of island
  • Rent a car to explore more beaches and access more places
  • One week is enough time on the island
  • Pack your snorkel 

Travel:

Getting to Grand Cayman is an easy Caribbean destination. It’s about a four- and half-hour direct flight from MSP to GCM. Customs moves quick. Security was simple. Car rental was a quick walk from the airport, no shuttle needed. It’s the easiest to access island I’ve visited to date.  

Accommodations:

We stayed in a VRBO at Sunset Cove on Seven Mile Beach. Our VRBO was excellent. Easy check-in, clean, water view, beach access, pool, bar, and had all the supplies (plenty of toilet paper, laundry detergent, dish soap, etc.). 

The beach had a good, sheltered area for swimming, plenty of chairs, and a stunning sunset view. It was great snorkeling right off the beach too. However, the beach was not the classic white sand, blue waters you’d hope for in the Caribbean at our location. 

To get to the walkable, white sand, blue water beaches, we had to walk about one mile then enter the nicer part of Seven Mile Beach. It worked out fine, as we had a car and could drive to other beaches when we wanted. 

Other than the pickiness standards for beach, it was a great stay. 

Overall, Grand Cayman wins for easiest Caribbean travel destination, in my book.

Good beaches, warm weather, and plenty of water activity.

People change, let them.

People change, let them.

Embracing Change: A Letter to Myself

Dear self,

As the tides of life ebb and flow, so do the people around us. Change is inevitable, an intrinsic part of our journey through this ever-evolving world.

It’s a realization that’s both liberating and daunting. The individuals we once knew may no longer resemble the people they are today. And you, dear self, are no exception. You’ve undergone your own metamorphosis, shedding old skins to make way for the new.

But amidst this whirlwind of transformation, it’s essential to remember: change is not only permissible but necessary. It signifies growth, evolution, and the unyielding march forward. Though it may be bittersweet, it’s a testament to the vibrancy and resilience of the human spirit.

So let go of the past, release your grip on expectations, and allow yourself and others the space to change, to grow, to become. Embrace the beautiful chaos of transformation, knowing that within it lies the promise of new beginnings, endless possibilities, and boundless potential.

With love and acceptance,

G

Guide to Providenciales, Turks & Caicos

Guide to Providenciales, Turks & Caicos

Beautiful by Nature

January 2024

Another year, another island. Providenciales, Turks & Caicos did not disappoint. Perfect weather, excellent food, good shopping, and endless white sand and turquoise water beaches. 

Travel:

Embarking on your Providenciales adventure offers flexibility in travel options. While direct flights from MSP can be costly, American Airlines provides reasonably priced flights to the island, and Delta offers a convenient Saturday direct flight back to MSP. Anticipate a potential wait of about an hour in customs upon arrival, unless opting for a fast pass. Plan for a total of two full days dedicated to travel, suggesting an optimal stay of 6-8 days depending on your preferred activities and budget. If you’re staying outside of the Grace Bay area, it would be good to rent a car. Note, driving is on the opposite side of the road. 

Accommodations:

We opted for an AirBNB at Northwest Point Resort, with a stunning beach view. However, it came with a slight trade-off- approximately a 30-minute drive from the bustling Grace Bay Area, our primary hub for most of the trip. Notably, there were no restaurants within a convenient 20-minute drive, making it essential to plan ahead for meals and activities. If tranquility and seclusion are your preferences, this location is perfect. Just be prepared to exercise patience and careful planning if you intend to explore restaurants and other beaches. An added perk was the entertaining spectacle of numerous windsurfers gracefully navigating the waters, providing a delightful scene to enjoy during our stay!

Beaches:

Providenciales unveils some of the most beautiful beaches I’ve visited. The crystalline turquoise waters and velvety white sands redefine the coastal experience to a whole new level. Each beach carries its unique charm:

  • Northwestern Point: Nestled in the tranquil surroundings of our Airbnb, this beach exuded a serene ambiance. While perfect for a leisurely stroll and known for its tranquility, it’s not the ideal spot for swimming due to the winds. We enjoyed long quiet walks to the national park and pulling conch shells out of the sand. 
  • Grace Bay Beach: A personal favorite (obviously), Grace Bay Beach stole my heart with its pristine white sand and inviting turquoise waters. Ideal for swimming and buzzing with activity, we found ourselves returning to this spot multiple times.
  • Bight Beach: Offering a different yet equally enchanting vibe, Bight Beach boasts picturesque beauty with slightly more waves than Grace Bay. Rumors of excellent snorkeling opportunities right off the beach added to its allure.
  • Sapodilla Bay Beach: Nestled near Chalk Sound, Sapodilla Bay Beach lured us with its breathtaking scenery and inviting waters. While we didn’t stay long, it appeared perfect for a refreshing swim, bustling with activity, and offering a rent-a-chair style experience. However, note that amenities like public restrooms were scarce, replaced by numerous tent vendors contributing to the atmosphere.

Eats:

This may be a first, but I had no complaints about any of the food we had in Providenciales. 

  • Lemon 2 Go: A cherished haven with the friendliest baristas, Lemon 2 Go became our go-to coffee spot. Beyond exceptional coffee, their green smoothies, protein bites, and breakfast offerings were delightful. The staff’s kindness is reason enough to visit – don’t forget to grab a t-shirt! Ask for a drink punch card on your first visit; trust me, you’ll fill it by week’s end. We spent hours on their front patio. 
  • Beans & Leaves: Another popular coffee shop. While enjoyable we found ourselves visiting Lemon 2 Go more frequently. 
  • Da Conch Shack: Situated right on the beach, Da Conch Shack promises good vibes, delectable food, and impeccable service. Look at their website to find out which night they have live music. The rice and peas were a hit. 
  • Cocovan: A unique lunch spot housed in an old airstream van, Cocovan impressed us with their fresh carrot juice and grilled mahi mahi tacos on a lettuce wraps. Conveniently located near Grace Bay Beach public access.
  • Bugaloo’s: Off the beaten path, but near Chalk Sound and Sapodilla Bay, Bugaloo’s emerged as a favorite. The avocado shrimp salad was a culinary masterpiece – a delightful 10/10 presentation and easily one of the top five meals of my life.
  • Pelican Bay: Adjacent to Grace Bay Beach public access, Pelican Bay not only offers a great lunch but also provides restroom access. As per our friends, it boasts the best daily happy hour deals starting at 5.
  • Giggles: Satisfy your sweet cravings with Giggles’ ice cream and gelato, though a bit pricey at $27 for two single dishes, the taste makes it worthwhile.
  • Island Scoop: Another ice cream spot, Island Scoop, offered tasty treats.
  • Thursday Night Fish Fry: Immerse yourself in the local culture at the Thursday Night Fish Fry – a must-attend event featuring vendors, food stands, drinks, and music. Indulge in delectable lobster and a refreshing mojito; the festivities kick off at 5:30, and arriving a bit earlier is recommended, especially if you’re driving.
  • Castaways: Located on Grace Bay Road, Castaways invites you to unwind during their happy hour from 3-6, with a tempting 30% off on drinks.

Stores: 

Providenciales offers many shops from boutiques, to surf shops, to local art shops. The main shopping was in Grace Bay area. 

  • Island Organics: A haven for enthusiasts of natural products, Island Organics beckons with a tempting array of all-natural skincare, essential oils, locally crafted goods, and more. A visit to this store feels like an exploration of pure indulgence, and you might find yourself wanting one of everything. I wanted to take the entire store home. 
  • Beach Monkey: Dive into the world of stylish beach attire at Beach Monkey, your go-to spot for trendy swimsuits and chic cover-ups. Elevate your beach wardrobe with their curated selection.
  • More: The shopping adventure doesn’t end here. There’s a plethora of additional stores awaiting your exploration in Grace Bay, promising an array of unique finds and local treasures. 

What to pack: 

Effortless packing is the key to a seamless beach vacation, and having navigated through numerous moves in my twenties, I’ve mastered the art of traveling light. With a consistent weather of around 80 degrees throughout the week, here’s a curated list of essentials:

  • Footwear: Say goodbye to tennis shoes for the entire week – a first for me! Opt for beach walks and sandals. I recommend the comfort and versatility of plastic Birkenstocks.
  • Swimsuits: Pack a collection of swimwear, most of my days were spent in a swimsuit and coverup if going into town or out to eat. 
  • Exercise Clothes: If you’re inclined towards fitness, pack 2-3 sets of exercise clothes to ensure you don’t miss out on any wellness routines.
  • Casual Wear: Include 1-2 sets of jean shorts and tanks for leisurely strolls around town, an alternative to wear over your swimsuit.
  • Dinner Attire: Bring 1 nice outfit for those evenings when you plan to dine at a more formal setting.
  • Pajamas: Ensure a good night’s sleep with 1-2 sets of comfortable pajamas.
  • Skincare Essentials: Prioritize skincare with a comprehensive selection including sunscreen, aloe for post-sun care, hydrating lotions, and indulgent sugar scrub. Embrace the radiant glow even under the Caribbean sun!

Other Notes:

  • Weather: Consistent 80-degree sunshine, although occasional winds.
  • Driving: Drive on the left with a right-side steering wheel, encountering numerous roundabouts but no streetlights or stoplights.
  • Language: English serves as the primary language, ensuring smooth communication.
  • Outlets: Power up effortlessly with American-style outlets.
  • Recommendation: Opt for accommodations along Grace Bay Beach, eliminating the need for a rental car and enhancing the beachside stay.
  • Currency: American currency, acknowledging the expected expense associated with island living, albeit slightly pricier than other Caribbean destinations.
  • Snorkeling: Don’t forget your snorkel gear! Explore the underwater wonders off various beaches, a missed opportunity I regretted.
  • Driving Distance: The island spans a 30-minute drive from end to end, with a rush hour around 4-6 or 7 p.m.
  • Safety: The island is very safe, but exercising common sense.
  • Location: Part of the British West Indies (BWI). Many visitors from Europe, Canada, and the U.S.
  • Cleanliness: Very clean island with the occasional dog or goat sighting. 
  • Airport: Brace for a bustling airport experience, as flights seem to converge simultaneously. Patience is key.
  • Groceries: Multiple grocery stores on the island. We frequented the Graceway IGA which offered most essentials.
  • Water: Our Airbnb host said the tap water is fine for her as a local but recommended bottle water for drinking.

Things we didn’t get to:

  • Boat tour of other islands in TCI
  • Kayak in the mangroves 
  • Snorkeling off the beach or by boat
  • Visit beaches in bay areas near Chalk Souns
  • Walk rescue dogs at Potcakes Place K-9 Rescue

The big question:“would you go back?” 

1,000 times yes. Easy travel destination. Great weather, good food, excellent swimming. To be specific, I would go every three years and explore new islands in between.

For more pictures, check out the “TCI” highlighted on @gifted_with_grace

Lessons from 2023

Lessons from 2023

Endings are bittersweet. There’s a mix of sadness for what’s ending but excitement for what’s to come. 

Over the past few weeks, I’ve been in deep reflection about the past year. 

The joy. The memories. The changes. The challenges. 

Here are my lessons… take what resonates, leave the rest. 

2023 Lessons:

  1. Individual paths vary; what works for others may not work for you.
  2. Maintain a work-life balance; work to live, don’t live to work.
  3. Prioritize experiences over material possessions; travel enriches life.
  4. Your job doesn’t define your purpose; it’s okay if it’s just a paycheck.
  5. Prioritize mineral health; take tests and understand your body.
  6. Trust your body’s signals; practice self-awareness and consider somatic therapy.
  7. Enjoy workouts with friends; explore classes and find what you enjoy.
  8. Social media is a highlight reel. Mute and unfollow as needed.
  9. Long-distance relationships are challenging but manageable.
  10. Connect with people; attend events, ask questions, and stay curious.
  11. Experiment; if it doesn’t work, consider it a learning experience.
  12. Appreciate living rent-free but be open to leaving your comfort zone.
  13. Value and cherish relationships with those around you.
  14. Friendships naturally ebb and flow; allow for the evolution.
  15. Advocate for yourself; assert your needs and boundaries.
  16. Embrace change; it’s a constant in life.
  17. Be open to life’s surprises; not everything needs a plan.
  18. Believe in your abilities even when others don’t.
  19. Seek coaching or mentorship for valuable insights.
  20. Less is often more; simplify when possible.
  21. Appreciate your current situation, even if it’s not your ultimate goal.
  22. Accept feedback as a gift; actively seek constructive criticism.
  23. Prioritize proactive health and well-being measures.
  24. Spend time outdoors for the benefits to your health.
  25. Trust your own intuition – it knows best. 

These lessons emphasize self-awareness, growth, and a balanced approach to life.

What’s your top lesson from 2023?

Here’s to new beginnings… “In restful stillness of midwinter there is a time to dream, a time to look inwards, and to connect others. A time of reflection and deep gratitude. A time to discard the old and welcome the new and begin again.”

Yvonne Coomber
Curating your living space

Curating your living space

Take your time in making your home a haven. Your soul deserves it. – Hoda

From a young age, I’ve loved designing and decorating my space. I redesigned my bedroom at least three times as a child (sorry mom). One of my favorite activities was going to visit my mom’s interior designer and looking at what she had in mind for our next home projects. 

Part of my “adulting” journey has allowed me to relive these feelings again on a larger scale. 

Over the past three months, I’ve been slowly curating the design of my apartment. It’s been a work in progress, but I like it that way. To curate a space, you need to find the ways in which you want to feel in the space, how you use the space, and what you want to bring into the space. 

Although it would have been nice to have the space curated upon moving in, I knew I’d  need to settle in and adjust with time. I also knew that with my values, I seek quality or quantity or instant gratification. Yes, I could’ve gone to Home Goods and bought the same art in everyone’s home but that’s not who I am. I like supporting local artists and finding unique pieces that will last over time.

I finally feel like I’m at a place where my space feels like a home. The furniture has found its place. The art has been hung. The vibe has been created with love and intention. 

To create the environment I wanted, I did a lot of reflecting on how I wanted my space to feel and have been cautious of what I bring into the space. Does it spark joy? Add value? Create calm?

Given my tendency to operate under high stress levels, stepping into a clean, simple, and grounding environment is non-negotiable. I took the time to envision how I wanted to feel in the space and the type of environment I wanted to create. Throughout this reflection process, I found that earthy greens and grounding browns, complemented by natural wood elements and minimalistic decor, are central to my aesthetic.

Every space should inspire you to live your best life. – Hoda

Ready to curate your space?

Reflection prompts:

1. How do you envision yourself feeling in your space, and what activities or elements contribute to that atmosphere?

2. Reflect on colors and materials that not only comfort you but resonate with your sense of peace and contentment. How might they be incorporated into your environment?

3. Consider your overarching intentions for your space. What specific purposes and energies do you hope to cultivate within each area?

4. Delve into how you’d like to designate and utilize different areas in your space. What activities or experiences will each zone accommodate?

5. Contemplate the balance between style, functionality, and quality in your ideal environment. How will these elements harmonize to create a space that truly aligns with you?

6. Envision the impressions you’d like your space to leave on visitors. How can you curate an environment that fosters comfort, warmth, or inspiration?

7. Define and refine your personal style, considering elements of design, decor, and furnishings that authentically express who you are and what brings you joy.

General tips:

1. Define Your Style: Start by identifying your preferred design style, whether it’s modern, traditional, eclectic, minimalist, or a blend of styles. This will serve as a foundation for your design choices.

2. Consider Functionality: Determine how you’ll use each room. For example, a living room may be for relaxation and entertaining, while a home office needs to be functional and conducive to work.

3. Choose a Cohesive Color Palette: Select a color scheme that complements your style and creates a harmonious flow throughout your home. Consider how colors evoke emotions and choose accordingly.

4. Personalize with Accessories: Add personal touches through accessories like artwork, decorative items, and textiles. These can reflect your interests, hobbies, and experiences.

5. Balance Open and Private Spaces: Create a balance between open, communal spaces and private areas for relaxation and solitude.

6. Optimize Lighting: Incorporate a combination of natural, ambient, and task lighting. Lighting can significantly impact the mood and functionality of a space.

7. Furniture Selection: Invest in furniture that aligns with your style and provides comfort. Consider the scale of the furniture in relation to the room’s size.

8. Maximize Storage Solutions: Effective storage helps maintain a clutter-free environment. Consider built-in storage solutions or multifunctional furniture.

9. Experiment with Textures: Incorporate various textures through textiles, furniture, and decor. This adds depth and visual interest to your space.

10. Consider Scale and Proportion: Ensure that the scale and proportion of furniture and decor are appropriate for the size of the room. This creates visual harmony.

11. Experiment and Evolve: Don’t be afraid to try new things. Experiment with different layouts, colors, and decor elements. Your style may evolve over time.

12. Seek Inspiration: Draw inspiration from interior design magazines, websites, social media platforms, and even nature. Save images that resonate with you for reference.

13. Prioritize Comfort: Prioritize comfort in seating, bedding, and overall layout. Your home should feel inviting and relaxing.

Remember, designing your space is a personal journey. Take your time and enjoy the process. It’s about creating a space that feels uniquely yours and supports your lifestyle.

Find your style. Curate the vibe. Design the space. 

Your home should tell the story of who you are, and be a collection of what you love. – Nate Burkus

23 Lessons from Age 23

23 Lessons from Age 23

Age 23: a year of transition, transformation, and travel. 

23 felt like a weird in-between year. No longer a student. Identity shifts. Friends evolve. Body changes. All the things. 

But 23 was also transformative. A year of change, travel, and growth. 

Grateful for what was, excited for what’s to come. 

23 lessons from 23:

  1. You are capable. Believe in your gifts. 
  2. Trust your own intuition – it knows. 
  3. Befriend change – it’s a constant. 
  4. Find activities outside of work.
  5. Not every craft needs to be a business. 
  6. Take a breath (or 10) before reacting. 
  7. Find movement you love. Do that. 
  8. Travel while you’re young. Travel often. 
  9. Not everyone will see your gifts.
  10. You may need to go to grow.
  11. Find mentors. Connect often. 
  12. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
  13. Throw yourself into new experiences.
  14. Don’t be afraid to go alone – expand. 
  15. Protect your energy. Not a hell yes, no. 
  16. A simple smile goes a long way. 
  17. Slow down. What’s the rush?
  18. Connect. It’s all about who you know.
  19. Give yourself grace – you deserve it. 
  20. Stop doubting your gifts. Be confident.
  21. Keep shinning. People are watching. 
  22. Nature it medicine. Go there. 
  23. Communication is key. Ask for what you want. 

May my next trip around the sun bring in even more love, light, and transformation into who I’m meant to be.